This is soo true and it’s important for everyone to remember. As you all know my happiness is my lifting. It’s for me it’s about myself. It’s my happy time. It’s not easy and it’s sometimes annoying but I love it. I got into this life style as a kid to deal with my horrible surroundings. I was not in a good place. I did not have any good examples to follow and it was always about taking care of or impressing other people. It was about putting myself last and ignoring what I needed to thrive. It was never about tomorrow it was always about now. The parties were about others and being passive with how I felt just to make sure other people were happy. All of it. So I quit dance started running track and high jumping and seeing that I had to work hard to progress in time. I was sold on the hustle. After high school I got a little nuts again and then I found this. The #Npc #bikini People will tell me how shallow they think it is and how I need to be working on getting ready to have a family or things like that and I just want to push them off a cliff. This is my book. This is my happy. It’s about me? Yes but I’m the one who has to live with my memories and I want to homie I did what was needed and what made my life. I’m still a wife and one day I’ll be a mother. I’ll always be a athlete and a human with a heart. If I can help others find their happiness in taking care of themselves then I will do what I can. Find what makes you happy and do it.